Friday 4 March 2011

[CoolCollectionsForYou] How To Live Life










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The Top 10 Ways to Start Living Your Life Life either happens to us, or we take hold of life and live it.



1. Give yourself permission to claim your life. That's right — permission. You're the only one who can decide you are in charge of

your life. Even though it feels like you're not supposed to do so,

turn off the internal editors, the old tape recordings, the "shoulds,

have tos, and musts", and the rules that didn't come from you.


2. Define what living means to you. It's not

as hard as it sounds.

Just picture yourself at the end of your life looking back. What words

would you want to describe how you lived your life and who you are as

a person?



3. Stop living in the future. Every time you think "someday" or "when

I have time I will," stop. Ask yourself, "Why not now?" Think about

this sentence, "I always wanted to, but never did." Start doing the

things you always planned to do. Choose your life every morning. Plan

one thing you will do that day to feel alive.


4. Surround yourself with people who enjoy living. They've obviously

discovered how to have a life and live it. Why not hang with the pros?


5. Lay down your pain and your anger. Carrying them around makes

living harder and less fun. It doesn't bring anything, and it steals

a

lot.


6. Let the losers win. Don't argue about things that you don't care

about. Unless there's some real threat, let the folks who have

something to prove, prove what they need to. Why waste your living

time trying to fix what's wrong with them?



7. Create energy. Jump to forgiveness and love, then figure things

out. Most conclusions we jump to are not only wrong, they're negative.

Negative conclusions lead us to prepare a defense. Being on the

defensive isn't living. It's hiding from life.



8. Learn the physical symptoms of when your head and heart become

disconnected. We know when we're having a knee jerk reaction, when

we're feeling sorry for ourselves, and when we're being blind to

people's feelings. We can remember how it felt physically while we

were behaving badly. Get to

know those symptoms, and you can stop the

behavior. Living life will feel a whole lot safer because you won't be

in danger of shooting yourself in the foot.



9. Take small risks that push your boundaries in every way. The joy of

life is packed in learning that matches our skill set. When we stretch

just a bit intellectually, physically, emotionally, we grow. Living is

growing. Even your cells know that.


10. Value and protect the people and the places you care about. A job

isn't a life. It's just a part of one. Let the people you care about

come first, and let everyone know that you do. Re-read numbers 1 and 2.



We come into life with whatever we've got. It's ours to do with. It

took me a while to figure that out — that my life isn't just what

happens to me, that I could take hold of

it.



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