1. Past karma and present situations are different for everyone, but the process of healing is the same – be aware of the emotion, check the thought behind it, gently counsel yourself and change the thought, feelings and responses will change.
2. To make the children emotionally healthy and happy, the parents need to be emotionally strong. Emotional intelligence cannot be taught, parents have to be that to empower the child.
3. Having our meals while watching TV is not healthy for the mind and the body. We need to take care of – what we eat, when we eat and in what state of mind we eat, because YOU ARE WHAT YOU EAT.
4. To heal the children if they are in pain, parents need to be stable, loving and powerful. If the parents go in pain, then they are only adding pain to the pain of the child.
5. Detachment means to be able to create your feelings independent of the emotions of others around you, which means your mind remains uninfluenced of people and situations.
6. Attachment creates pain and reduces our physical and emotional efficiency.
Episode 14
1. Parents need to check their belief systems, because the children adopt the same belief system and then it becomes theirs for life, and their destiny shapes accordingly.
2. Relationships are not labels. Each relationship is only an energy exchange between a soul and a soul, we need to take care of the energy we create and vibrate to everyone.
3. When we communicate we should say and do only what we firmly believe. If our belief system is different from our words, it sends a conflicting message to others, and then we complain that they do not understand us.
4. Our thoughts radiate continuously and words are used rarely. Thought energy travels faster than words. Therefore thought communication is faster and more powerful than words and actions.
2. To make the children emotionally healthy and happy, the parents need to be emotionally strong. Emotional intelligence cannot be taught, parents have to be that to empower the child.
3. Having our meals while watching TV is not healthy for the mind and the body. We need to take care of – what we eat, when we eat and in what state of mind we eat, because YOU ARE WHAT YOU EAT.
4. To heal the children if they are in pain, parents need to be stable, loving and powerful. If the parents go in pain, then they are only adding pain to the pain of the child.
5. Detachment means to be able to create your feelings independent of the emotions of others around you, which means your mind remains uninfluenced of people and situations.
6. Attachment creates pain and reduces our physical and emotional efficiency.
Episode 14
1. Parents need to check their belief systems, because the children adopt the same belief system and then it becomes theirs for life, and their destiny shapes accordingly.
2. Relationships are not labels. Each relationship is only an energy exchange between a soul and a soul, we need to take care of the energy we create and vibrate to everyone.
3. When we communicate we should say and do only what we firmly believe. If our belief system is different from our words, it sends a conflicting message to others, and then we complain that they do not understand us.
4. Our thoughts radiate continuously and words are used rarely. Thought energy travels faster than words. Therefore thought communication is faster and more powerful than words and actions.
5. Appreciate children for their values and let them grow up with the belief system that values work and are appreciated by the world, rather than focussing only on performance to get acceptance.
Episode 15
1. When people have the faith that we will not react but respond with understanding, they are ready to tell us the truth. Dishonesty is used only because of fear of anger.
2. Punishment, anger and reactive behaviour disempowers a child, because we are radiating negative energy. Discipline means empowerment and transformation, so that they do not make the mistake again, this requires energy of love and understanding.
3. Two souls born in the same family carry different sanskars of the past births, and so they are two different personalities. Comparing them and asking one to be like the other, lowers the self esteem of the child. Comparison and criticism disempowers people.
4. Every statement we are making for a child whether in thoughts or in words, he is using that to create his self image, and this will be the basis of his self esteem. We need to use only positive and powerful thoughts and words when we communicate to our children.
Episode 16
1. Whatever a child does, at that time they are right from their perspective. The parents may not agree with the child but need to accept that the child has a reason for what he is are doing. This gives the child acceptance and respect.
2. If the parent always feels that the child is wrong, then that sends a feeling of rejection. At the same time there are friends who accept and that is why the child drifts towards peer pressure.
3. The child then forces himself to do even that what he does not want to do, so that he does not lose the acceptance of friends.
4. Our self esteem has become dependent on people's acceptance, and hence we are always concerned about what do people think about us. While taking decisions it is important to only remember what is good for me and my family and what is in my capacity, rather than pleasing people to feel happy.
Episode 15
1. When people have the faith that we will not react but respond with understanding, they are ready to tell us the truth. Dishonesty is used only because of fear of anger.
2. Punishment, anger and reactive behaviour disempowers a child, because we are radiating negative energy. Discipline means empowerment and transformation, so that they do not make the mistake again, this requires energy of love and understanding.
3. Two souls born in the same family carry different sanskars of the past births, and so they are two different personalities. Comparing them and asking one to be like the other, lowers the self esteem of the child. Comparison and criticism disempowers people.
4. Every statement we are making for a child whether in thoughts or in words, he is using that to create his self image, and this will be the basis of his self esteem. We need to use only positive and powerful thoughts and words when we communicate to our children.
Episode 16
1. Whatever a child does, at that time they are right from their perspective. The parents may not agree with the child but need to accept that the child has a reason for what he is are doing. This gives the child acceptance and respect.
2. If the parent always feels that the child is wrong, then that sends a feeling of rejection. At the same time there are friends who accept and that is why the child drifts towards peer pressure.
3. The child then forces himself to do even that what he does not want to do, so that he does not lose the acceptance of friends.
4. Our self esteem has become dependent on people's acceptance, and hence we are always concerned about what do people think about us. While taking decisions it is important to only remember what is good for me and my family and what is in my capacity, rather than pleasing people to feel happy.
5. Do not impose decisions on children; guide them to take their decisions. Let the decision be theirs, so that they take personal responsibility of the decision and its consequences.
6. Let's not decide the journey for them. Let us empower them to walk the path, and strengthen them to cross any obstacles that come on the way.
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